taking the time for french press and edith piaf on a winter morning. to walk when it is a beautiful day. to wander museums. to write thank you notes. to write hello notes. to light a candle at supper, be it takeout or a lovingly prepared feast. to listen. to say yes. to say no. to eat well. to tell someone i am thinking of them, when i am thinking of them. to kiss him once more before he leaves for work.